What is True Love?

"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things."
1 Corinthians 13:7

1 Corinthians 13 is probably the most well-known and well-used chapter in the Bible because of its subject matter - love. It is the "go-to" chapter for weddings for it uniquely and perfectly describes the many facets that make up love. But to keep it in context we need to look at the chapter before it, which talks about spiritual unity and diversity in the body of Christ.

It was this diversity that the Apostle Paul was addressing and he wanted people to realize that even though we are one body with many members, we have all been baptized by the same Spirit and so we should try to live in peace with each other. So speaking tongues, or having the gifts of prophecy or faith, were not important if you didn't have love.

Paul eloquently reminds us that love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. And when we look at Paul's description of love we see the object of his affection right away.

 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy;
love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked,
thinks no evil;does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Jesus was our perfect example of love. He suffered and died for us. He was kind. He was not envious. In fact, he often had no place to lie his head, but he did not complain. He did not parade himself around all puffed up with pride. He didn't boast about who he really was. He did not dishonour people by treating them rudely. He was not self-seeking. He was not easily angered and the only time he did let loose with his anger was with righteous indignation over what the priests had done to the Temple of God, by turning it into a den of thieves (Matthew 21:12-14). He kept no record of wrongs done to him. In fact, he took them to the cross and forgave them there. He did not rejoice in evil or inequity, but he rejoiced in the truth and it was that truth that kept him on the cross for you and me. Why? Because love (Jesus) bears all things, he believed all things, he hoped all things and he endured all things, so that we might be saved. This is true love.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13