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​Unlocking God's Word

How to Have Peace At Home and at Work

1/30/2017

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Read Ephesians 6:1-9

And now we come to the last chapter of Ephesians. After instilling in the Ephesians the importance of submission and what that looks like for married couples, Paul then continues to instruct these new Christians on how they should treat their children and their servants, and how children and servants should respond to those in authority over them.

Interesting to note is that Paul's underlying theme of submission can still be seen in his instructions by three little words, "in the Lord." For it is in the Lord we abide and it is through our reverence for Him that we submit to one another and learn to live in peace with each other.

For children, this meant obeying their parents and it came with a promise from God,
"that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth." Their act of submission in the Lord, was by obeying their parents. But there was an added warning from Paul when dealing with children. It is specifically addressed to the fathers, "Do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord."  In the pagan world of Paul's day most men ruled their families with rigid and domineering authority. The feelings of wives and children were seldom considered. But Paul is showing them a new way to raise children. The word "admonition" is nouthesia and means "the training by word," whether of encouragement, or, if necessary, by reproof, so Paul is showing the fathers the importance once again of being the spiritual head of the home. For it is through the Word of God that we find our peace. This act of putting God first above all in the home had a "trickle down" affect. Women would submit to their husbands, out of reverence for God and children would obey their parents out of reverence for God. 

The same principle was put into practice for those with servants. Servants were to serve their masters as they would serve Christ and masters were to do the same thing. 
The only exception being in regard to a command that involves clear disobedience of God’s Word as illustrated in Acts 4:19, 20.

In today's world we are to serve our bosses (however disagreeable they may be) as we would serve Christ and vice-versa. Submission to each other "in the fear of the Lord" (reverence for God) is how peace within the body of Christ is established and the only way the church will survive in this turbulent world.
And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.  - Colossians 3:15
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How Submission Really Works

1/23/2017

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Read Ephesians 5:22-33

This is going to be a long post but stick with me because in the end you will never have a problem with the word "submission" again.

​Today we will carefully examine a section of Scripture that most women have struggled with for centuries. The modern woman of today finds it extremely offensive and some Christian men who have misinterpreted it, use it as an abusive form of control over their wives. It all stems from this one verse: "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord."  Let's look into the Word of God and find out exactly what it means to submit to our husbands. 

Before we begin, please grab a coloured pencil or highlighter and open your Bibles to Ephesians 5:22-33. Every time you see the word "own" colour it in, or underline it. Do something to make it stand out. You will see why in a minute. Don't have your Bible handy? Visit Biblegateway.com and highlight the word "own" there. It is an excellent site for Bible study as they not only allow you to highlight, but you can take notes that are saved for you as well. So, go highlight the word "own" and then come back here. I'll wait...I'm not going anywhere.

Now, that you have done that, let's look at these verses in context. At the beginning of Ephesians chapter five, Paul encourages the Ephesian converts to be "imitators of God" and so he lays out several keys and examples on how a Christian should live and what is expected of them. Last week, we looked at the Eight Keys to Godly Living and one of the last keys precedes the verses for today. But before we look at that, let's look at the entire section which says:
17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, 20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another in the fear of God (Ephesians 5:17-21, NKJV).
As you can see, Paul is setting the context on how we should live for the Lord, and what that should look like in how we relate to each other as members of Christ's body. Last week I shared the meaning on what it meant to submit to one another "in the fear of God".  Here it is again: "The word fear in Hebrew is yirah and means "awe or reverence". The "fear of the Lord" means to have an overwhelming sense of His glory or worth. Submitting to one another in the "fear of God" therefore, means we submit out of reverence for God and His holiness. This kind of submission means we do not try to use our wealth, gender or position to "bulldoze" someone into doing what we want. Instead, this kind of submission is done with respect and love for each other and our unity in Christ, out of reverence for God." 

​Now, with that in mind, let's look at the first few verses and the word "own" that I had you highlight. 

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything (Ephesians 5:22-24).


Ever wonder why that word "own" is there? Or why Paul had to make such a big deal about wives submitting to their own husbands? The Ephesian converts were a particular concern for the Apostle Paul because Ephesus was the capital of idol worship in the Roman world. It is here where most idols were made and sold. And it is here where the acts of idol worship involved prostitution, orgies, and other sexually immoral acts. This is the culture the Ephesian converts came out of, but it still went on around them every day. These immoral acts did not stop because some became Christians. Every day they struggled with reverting back to their old ways. But, the early believers were torn because of two false doctrines that were sweeping through the church.

The first false doctrine spread was antinomianism. Antinomianism is the belief that you could sin all you want and still be saved because of grace This doctrine, is something that is still promoted today in churches, through leaders like Joseph Prince. The other false doctrine being spread was by the Nicolaitans. They put themselves forward as believers in Jesus Christ and, at the same time, practiced black magic, offered sacrifices to numerous idols and were sexually immoral, all while teaching new believers that all these things were okay with God. In Revelation 2:6 Jesus commended the Ephesians for hating the practices of the Nicolaitans.

Despite that, these false doctrines were spreading throughout the early church because of the practice of idol worship. This is why Paul stressed in Ephesians 5:11, "And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them." He was earnestly trying to help the Ephesians understand what life in Christ was supposed to look like - and it didn't involve the occult and sexually immoral practices of idol worship. Keep this bit of history in mind as you read this section of Ephesians.

Getting back to the word "own" - because of the sexual immorality involved in idol worship, Ephesian wives (and their husbands) thought nothing about sleeping with other people, hence the reason why Paul needed to stress the importance of wives submitting to their own husbands, as to the Lord. 

Now, did you notice that last part - as to the Lord? It goes back to submitting to one another (Eph. 5:21) in the fear of God. So we submit to our husbands because we have reverence (fear - yirah) for God. Why? Because the husband is the head, as Christ is the head of the church and Jesus is the Saviour of that church. So the church as a whole is subject to Christ. We are under his authority. Not in a dogmatic "you do what I say" way, but because His ways (His authority) are for our benefit, that we might become like Him, sanctified, ready to serve Him not only in this world but in the one to come.

Now here is the kicker - we submit to our husbands not because they are superior in any way, but because God has placed upon them a huge responsibility for our spiritual welfare.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. (Ephesians 5:25-27, NKJV).
Again, keep the history of Ephesus in mind. As wives are to be subject to their own husbands (no longer submitting to other men), husbands were to love their own wives. How? As Christ loved the church. And how did Jesus love the church? He gave Himself up for her! And this is what husbands must do for their wives. Why? For one purpose - to sanctify and cleanse them. Jesus is counting on husbands to see that their wives are properly loved and washed (the Greek word is "loutron" and means bathed) in the Word, so that when Jesus comes again, both husband and wife will stand before Him holy and without blemish.

Submission therefore, has nothing to do with women meekly doing whatever they are told, or being subject to the whims of other men. Submission is solely in relation to the husband and wife partnership that is entered upon marriage. Women submit to their husbands out of reverence for God, with the knowledge that the husband is responsible to do everything in his power (give himself up for her) to ensure she will be loved and washed (or bathed) in the Word of God. 

Ultimately, we are each responsible for our relationship with the Lord. Single women answer to Jesus alone. He is their head. But those who are married enter into a unique covenant with God. The two become one (Ephesians 5:31) just as Christ and the church are one. And their relationship as Christians is made stronger because of this.

I want to make one thing very clear before I finish. This doesn't always mean the man is right in every circumstance. It also doesn't mean the woman is always right. God's Holy Spirit resides in each of us and He leads and guides each of us equally. So a husband and wife who read the Bible together and pray together will be so much stronger in the Lord and in hearing His voice, then they would be if they ignored this aspect of their marriage. Therefore, if you keep Christ as your head in your marriage submission will come easily.


“The woman was made out of Adam’s side. She was not made out of his head to rule over him, nor out of his feet to be trampled upon by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved.” - Matthew Henry
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Eight Keys to Godly Living

1/16/2017

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Read Ephesians 5:8-21

Paul has been laying out the basics for the converted Ephesians on how a Christian should live and behave. Today he instills in them again who they are now in Christ. He seems to be really trying to get this concept of who they are now across  to them. It must have been very hard for the Ephesians converts because their former lifestyles were so completely and utterly dark. Yet, Paul assures them again and again, that's not who they are now.

Sometimes I think we all need to be reminded that what we were is not who we are now. Some new Christians are so hard on themselves that they find forgiveness for their former lifestyle a hard thing to accept. They have a hard time forgiving themselves, so they reason Jesus must have a hard time doing it as well. We come out of the darkness, yet it somehow still clings to us in the form of regrets. Paul's words in today's verses remind us and encourage us to not only walk in the light of Christ, but to walk in reverence of Him.
Paul begins by reminding us that we "were once darkness". Notice that he doesn't say "we once walked in darkness", he says we were darkness. ​Think about that for a minute. We didn't walk or live in darkness - we were darkness. This is why it is so easy for Christians to fall into sin. Our sin nature (that darkness) will never leave us. Yes, we've been forgiven of our sins because of Jesus, but the ability to sin, the desire to sin will always be there. This is why it is so important for Christians to be in the Word daily. When we abide in the Word, Jesus abides in us, because He is the Word! 

But notice what Paul says now of those who have Jesus - "You are light in the Lord." He doesn't say "you are light" for that would be impossible in and of ourselves. No. He says, "You are light in the Lord." We are cleansed, forgiven, and we have been filled with God's Shekinah glory - His Holy Spirit. We are light only because of Jesus. Our bodies house His Holy Spirit, therefore we must do everything in our power to walk and live for His glory.

So how do we do that? How do we walk in the light? What are the eight keys to Godly living? Paul tells us:


  • Find out what is acceptable to the Lord (Ephesians 5:10). You will know immediately when you have done something wrong or are entertaining the idea of doing something that goes against God's Word, for the Holy Spirit that lives within you will convict you of your sin. When we listen to the Holy Spirit and stay true to the Word of God, our walk with the Lord will be strong and steady. For the fruit of the Spirit is found in goodness, righteousness and truth. When we keep those three attributes central in our lives, we will know what is acceptable to God.
  • Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness (Ephesians 5:11). When I was a teenager I joined a church after accepting Jesus as my Saviour. It was my hope that the youth group I was involved in would teach me how to live as a Christian. I did not grow up in a Christian home so I had no idea how to live as one. Unfortunately, I saw no difference in the lifestyles and choices of these "Christian" kids than my unsaved friends. These Christians (and their youth leaders) continued to drink until they were drunk, they had premarital sex (one even got pregnant), they took drugs, smoked, swore like sailors and basically acted no different then my unsaved friends. So because the youth leaders at that church encouraged this type of behaviour, with the line "everything is acceptable in Christ" it would be many, many years before I would be mature enough in my faith to realize they were not honouring God at all and that most of them never knew God in the first place. They were still living in darkness. Jesus was not abiding in them (or me) because He was not Lord of our lives. When we have fellowship with "the unfruitful works of darkness" there is no light in our lives at all. We have effectively doused the flame of the Holy Spirit. Paul warned the Ephesians (and us) not to grieve the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30). There has to come a time when we make a choice to continue to live in darkness or to live in the light of the Lord. It is one thing to reach out to those still trapped in darkness to bring them to Jesus. It is another thing entirely to join them in the darkness to try to reach them. Trust me. As someone who lived it, It doesn't work. 
  • Expose the darkness. If someone had simply said to me as a young teenage Christian, "You should not be swearing or drinking now that you are a Christian and here is why..." I might have learned to walk in the light a lot sooner. But no one pointed out my sins to me, except one man, who cringed everytime I took God's name in vain. He called me out on it and explained very clearly why it was wrong and I had a lightbulb moment from that day forward. It kept me from using God's name inappropriately, or as a swear word ever again. He exposed the darkness in me and guided me toward the light of Christ and how to abide in Jesus. Something no other church leader or Christian had ever done for me. To this day I am so incredibly thankful God cared enough about me to bring someone into my life, who honestly and lovingly showed me how I was sinning and why. So if you see a fellow Christian walking in darkness, don't be afraid to say something to them. You may be bringing them to the light of the Lord for the very first time.
  • Redeem your time. The NKJV says to walk "circumspectly". The word in Greek is akribōs and means to walk "exactly, accurately, or diligently." In other words, mind how you live, not as a fool, but with wisdom, because the days are evil. Examine your life - how are you spending your days?
  • Understand the Lord's will. The best way to understand God's will is by reading His Word. It is our handbook for life. Use it.
  • Be filled with the Spirit. How? Paul tells us: by, "speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord" (Ephesians 5:19-21). Does this mean we are to go around quoting Scripture at each other and singing all the time? Of course not! Remember who Paul is talking to - former idol worshippers, whose deeds were very dark indeed. He is contrasting their former lifestyle to their new one. And the same applies to us. When we lift each other up we are edifying the entire church. Come out of the darkness and rejoice in the light of Jesus!
  • Give thanks for all things. Ephesians 5:20 reminds us to be thankful for all things to God the Father in the name of Jesus. The Greek word used for "all things" is pas and it actually means "every" so we are to be thankful for everything that comes our way. Yep, even the bad stuff. Why? Because none of it gets past God. And while we may think what's happening to us is the worst possible thing that could ever happen to us, we must trust that God has a plan. I've had skin cancer, a 22-pound tumour in my stomach, an emergency surgery that resulted in the permanent loss of my singing voice (aka my career); a fall down a flight of stairs that left me partially disabled, and to top it all off I was diagnosed with an incurable disease that will one day kill me. Did God know all this was going to happen to me? Yes. Should I be thankful? Yes! Why? Because He is working all these things into my life for my good. For example, I would never have taken up writing as a career choice or even as a ministry if I was still singing. But being forced to sit all day because I can't get up and move like I used to keeps me in my Bible, studying it and sharing what I learn with you. And so I am very thankful to be able to have the time to do that.
  • Submit to one another in the fear of God (Ephesians 5:21), What does that mean? Does it mean we submit to each other because we're afraid of what God will do if we don't? Not at all! In fact, the word fear in Hebrew is yirah and means "awe or reverence". The "fear of the Lord" means to have an overwhelming sense of His glory or worth. Much like you would experience if you were seeing the Grand Canyon for the first time. That "wow" feeling. Submitting to one another in the "fear of God" therefore, means we submit out of reverence for God and His holiness. This kind of submission means we do not try to use our wealth, gender or position to "bulldoze" someone into doing what we want. Instead, this kind of submission is done with respect and love for each other and our unity in Christ out of reverence for God.

We all were once darkness, but now we are light in Jesus Christ. Meditate on that and rejoice, for you are part of the body of Christ.
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